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Society
lacks manners and common sense
By
Sandy Stafford
Skiff Staff
According to
his grandson, novelist Gore Vidal, former Sen. Thomas Gore of Oklahoma
once said, If there were any race other than the human race,
Id go join it.
While Sen. Gore
held this sentiment in the 1930s, it is in many ways still timely.
Society today is plagued by a disregard for manners and a lack of
common sense.
Unfortunately,
the reasons why are seemingly endless.
Some people
sit behind a steering column and lose any semblance of logical reasoning
ability. Talking on a cell phone is one thing, but talking on that
phone at rush hour in heavy traffic is something else.
Tailgating is
another example of idiocy behind the wheel. The higher probability
of a dangerous accident clearly outweighs any possible benefits
one might receive by intimidating a leading car to change lanes.
People then
go to park their cars and lose whatever sense and manners they had
remaining. Handicapped spaces are for the handicapped. The end.
These spaces may be tempting, but they exist to help disabled people,
not lazy people.
And why is it
that when some people parallel park, they lose any grasp they once
had of simple geometric proportions?
Do not park
your 2002 Ford Corolla three inches in front of a 1987 Ford Crown
Victoria unless you want a dent in your bumper. If the parking spot
you want is too small, park farther away rather than being a jerk
to the person who parked behind it.
Eventually,
people tend to leave their cars and venture inside, perhaps into
a theater. Some of these people refuse to turn off their cell phones,
despite the best efforts of the theater management. A few people
actually answer the phone during a show. If the conversation is
that much more important than the performance, why even leave the
house? Please, consider this an invitation to stay at home on the
couch where the popcorn is cheaper.
For some reason,
people behave even more rudely at live events than they do at movies.
People who will sit through a bad movie will leave three times for
the restroom during a good play, and then they will go home early
at intermission. Perhaps this results more from ignorance than from
intent to offend, but people should practice better etiquette. If
you cannot stay seated and quiet for a show, again, please stay
home.
And while sporting
events are more laid back, at least people who have to leave early
should have the common sense not to sit in the front row where their
leaving the event insults the other fans and the team.
This all goes
back to clichés taught in kindergartens everywhere. Although
the Golden Rule sounds fairly straightforward, maybe
some people should have taken notes.
Sandy
Stafford is a sophomore theatre/TV major from Nederland.
She can be contacted at (s.a.stafford@student.tcu.edu).
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